Monday, September 14, 2009

{Book Review} The Noticer written by Andy Andrews

The Noticer written by Andy Andrews

As this is my first “official” book review as a member of Thomas Nelson’s Book Review Blogger program, I feel a little nervous (almost like I have a book report due)–but here goes anyway!

The Noticer is about a man (Andy, the narrator) who meets an old man (simply Jones, not Mr. Jones) who over a period of many years, and at different times, gives Andy and the rest of the town “a little perspective.” This “perspective” is given when Andy or the townspeople are going through a difficult time. Many of lives are changed because of this old man's inspirational perspective. You will be encouraged by the stories of these people's lives as they are very believable. The experiences written about could be about your neighbor, your co-worker, or even a family member. There are interesting twists in the book about who is Jones?, why does he carry a suitcase?, what nationality/race is he?, why do some people call him by another name?

My first reaction was that I liked this book. The readability was set at a nice pace to be read in just a few evenings. I don't like slow starters and this definitely had me from the beginning. I was intrigued why a guy would be living under a pier and how a random old man could change his life by asking him “What is it about me that people would change if they could?”.

As much as I liked the book, it didn't really work for me because of the lack of scriptural context. There were many inspirational, helpful life-tips, but not a lot of reference to God and what He can do for and through you. A few themes in the book that I appreciated and would like to consider more with scripture mixed in:
  • Love dialects (spoken word of approval, favors & deeds, physical contact, quality time).
  • Whatever you focus upon, increases.
  • “Don't sweat the small stuff”is not really an accurate motto to live by because it's the small stuff that makes the big picture.
  • A decision to change may take a long time, but the actual change takes place in a heartbeat.
  • Choice vs mistake. Ask forgiveness for wrong choices, don't just say “I'm sorry.”
  • Take the first 10 minutes after you wake up to write down what you're grateful for.
Recommendation: Good Read.
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Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Counting My Blessings Tonight

  1. Blender broke this morning, but after noting it on facebook, a friend offered to give me one they're not using.
  2. Since I moved in back in May I have had only two comfy chairs but no couch in my living room. My sister and her family are downsizing and offered to loan to me a lovely, leather love seat.
  3. A friend volunteered her time and truck to help get the said couch to my apartment from "canada". ("Why do you have a big tchwuck, Whiz?" :-D)
  4. Another sister and her dear husband volunteered to help unload the said love seat from the said truck.
  5. I had food in my house and was able to make a delicious meal for the friend with the truck and before mentioned sister and brother-in-law, albeit a little late for a weeknight supper...yeah, 8 o'clock....but it was yummy!
  6. With the moving of the couch, meal preparations and cleanup, I thought I wouldn't have time tonight to type songs lyrics for an upcoming ladies retreat at which I was deemed song leader. The ladies working on the program need the songs ASAP, but I wasn't sure if I would be able to get them all typed tonight. As I sat down to see how many I could pound out, I remembered to check online for the lyrics! I found almost all of them!! Yay!!

Just a few blessings reasons to praise the Lord tonight!

"I will sing unto the Lord because he hath dealt bountifully with me." -- Psalm 13:6

G'night! Sweet dreams!

Thursday, August 13, 2009

free cd download

Just wanted to let my blog readers know about some great music that you can get for FREE!

http://mincymedia.com/blog/2009/08/13/free-cd-download/

It's kind of fun/interesting to be able to tell you about this music because I personally know the musician! Dave was the music director/pastor at Harvest when I lived on Guam. I really enjoyed singing in choir and ensembles under his direction and learned a lot from him. Like me, he's not on Guam any more, but he's still actively involved in church and music to the honor and glory of God! His blog will tell you more about his ministry and his music. Hope you get a chance to download this FREE CD and maybe even buy his newest CD!

Just as a point of fact, last year I received his Christmas CD from my sister for my birthday. Let me tell you it was my favorite CD of the season. I think I listened to it well into January, maybe even February! Yes, it was that good!

(So, Dave, how about adding Minnesota to your itinerary!?! Sara, you have roots up here! You should come for a visit!)

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

what's with the capital "K"?

Two people have asked me this question in the past few days, so I thought I'd address it on the blog of knowledge.

If you've received email from me in the past two years or so, you may have noticed my signature similar to this:
beKah

So to answer the question, let me just say that, yes, it may be that I capitalized the K for flair, but more importantly the capital K is for emphasis on the fact that there are no "C"s in my name!! As an added bonus, I just plain thought it looked cool! (insert big smiley face here)

That's it, that's all there is to it! ...and now you know!




Thanks for reading my blog!

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

support family & friends in business

This is a preliminary list of friends and family who have their own business. One of my fellow direct market friends had the idea to gather websites and contact information with those we know in an effort to support them with our business. I hope you can use this list to do some gift shopping for Christmas, birthdays, other special occasions, or just for your every day needs/wants! I'd love some feedback on this idea so leave a comment or send me an email: bekahflaming at gmail dot com!

Friends & Family GIFT Shopping Source
The go-to place for online shopping and friend supporting!

134 Shopping Days Left Until Christmas!
127 Shopping Days Left Until My Birthday!


Gifts of Scents


PartyLite – Bring ambiance to your home! www.partylite.biz/bekahflaming
Contact Bekah:
bekahflaming@gmail.com

Scentsy – Wickless Candles! -
www.scentsy.com/dewbear
Contact Danna:
dew44bear@yahoo.com



Handmade Gifts


Upper Krust Pies - Ship a delicious pie to anywhere nationwide! www.upperkrustpieshop.com

Handmade items by my mom (terlyn) -
www.etsy.com
Contact Terry:
dtflaming@kconline.com

Art and other handmade items by Sara (sarasart) -
www.etsy.com
Contact Sara:
saramincy@gmail.com
More Info:
sara-mincy.blogspot.com



Music & Books

Books - www.2by.net
Contact Hollands:
mholland@netwurx.net

Quiet Piano CDs…make great gifts -
mincymedia.com
Contact Dave:
dave.mincy@gmail.com
More Info:
mincymedia.com/blog



Miscellaneous


Agel - Nutritional Supplements and Skincare - healthfulsonshine.iamagel.com
Contact Ruth Bolton: rute4him@juno.com

General (apparel, school supplies, Cameras/Frames, Craft & Hobby, etc!) -
www.2bynow.net
Contact Hollands:
mholland@netwurx.net

Interior Design by Meg -
www.megannedesign.com
Contact Meg Flaming –
megatuttle@yahoo.com

Website Design for Ministries by Dave & Jake -
dwjfm.com
Contact Jake Flaming - jacobtaylor@email.com

Team National Online Shoppping - http://www.akhomefree.com/
Contact Al & Kay Hawkins - allanhawkins@mac.com


Leave a comment with your name/website to get added to my growing list! *
Or modify the list and pass it on to your friends & family!


This information is shared via email, Facebook and my blog with permission by the seller mentioned.

*Generally, I should know you personally before I add you to this list...

Sunday, August 2, 2009

hanover festival parade

I spent Saturday with the "canadians" er, I mean with the Markgrafs in Hanover. We enjoyed the annual parade, a little pot-luck/BBQ, fellowship and games with new and old friends, and a walk around the festival activities.

Here are a few pics:

Friday, July 31, 2009

this & that...time to catch up, continued again & again

Back at the end of June, I started to work on catching up on my blogging. So for the past month, along with keeping up with current events, I've been getting caught up. I did not realize it would take this long!! This marks the final entry for my catch up phase (not to be confused with ketchup!).

In April the church ladies hosted a shower for Jess. Here are a few pics:



My mom was able to come up for the shower and here are a few pics from her time here with us:



Not to be left out, Dad came up for a police chaplain conference and was able to be my first guest in my new apartment (arriving just in time...he didn't have to move anything or help unpack!). He stayed at the apartment with Luke, who was my 2nd guest. Here are a few pics from back in May:

this & that...time to catch up, continued again

Seems like I'm always trying to catch up on my blogging...

Here are some pics from our church's recent Patriotic Musical presented each year on the weekend prior to the 4th of July. Note our lovely scarves...hmhmmm... They tell me I should be thankful because we don't have to wear the sequins anymore...



Here are some random pics from July:

bright business


Updated 7/31/09

7/30/09 Well, the end of July is almost here and as promised here's an update on how I did in my first month in PartyLite.

I started off really well since my first Show ended up being my highest Show: sales = $369. This was really an overflow of my starter Show, but I'm thankful that even though there many couldn't come to the Starter Show they were still able to help me get started on this new venture.

My second show was also a catalog show with my mom as the hostess. I brought my FREE kit down to my mom & dad's and had a little mini-show for my dad, mom and two sisters. My mom then worked all month to sell candles for me. The totals of that Show are not yet finalized. Stay tuned for those results!

Update: The results are in!! Mom's Show sales were $299. It was so exciting to see this number grow throughout the deadline day. I had to submit the show on the 31st by 11 pm. I posted the original blog entry on Thursday and on Friday morning I let everyone know on Facebook how much I needed. It was so exciting to see the numbers go up and by 3pm I had reached my goal!!! My mom's Show did have a little help from two of my co-workers and my lil sis, Anna; their orders helped me go OVER the goal amount! I also had many words of encouragement from friends via Facebook. Thank you, family, friends and co-workers! Most of all, thanks to God for allowing me to earn extra money and for giving me encouraging family, friends and co-workers!


My third Show was with a gal from church. With only 3 in attendance we managed to squeak out $231 in Show sales, plus two future bookings.

My fourth Show was with my sister, Jen. Again, we only had three guests in attendance, but I did get a booking! That Show totaled $190.

My fifth Show included a trip to Watertown, WI. I had fun seeing old friends and the Show went well with about 8 in attendance and one booking. The Show totaled $313.

My sixth Show was actually a Fundraiser for Metro Women's Center. There was really only one seller and she was only able to sell for about 2 weeks. Her Show total was $140 and 1/2 of that goes directly to Metro Women's Center. The remaining $70 goes towards my sale totals. I hope we can do a larger scale Fundraiser for this organization in the near future.

So now I'm doing the math, and it looks like $227 is the magic number. I have to turn in that much by tomorrow by 11pm to qualify for PartyLite's BriteStart Month 1. My sale totals would then be $1400 and my team leader would really like me to reach that goal. Anyone interested in helping me reach this goal go to www.partylite.biz/bekahflaming. Only 148 shopping days until Christmas!

I'm really excited to go to our next team meeting (Aug 4th) with my "qualifying" numbers. You know, of course, that I get more FREE candles if I meet my goal this month! And if I meet the BrightStart goal the next two months, I also get more compensation. You might remember that one of my main reasons for joining PartyLite was to use the extra income to pay off a little debt and I'd really enjoy taking more trips to see family & friends!

This month was a success in my book. I met many new friends and enjoyed fellowship with many long-time (and many newer) friends. I hope I was a reflection of the Light to those I interacted with along the way.

escape to wisconsin - WTTN trip

Recently I mentioned that I took a trip to Watertown to do a PartyLite Show. Here are a few pics from the trip (note the captions):



I enjoyed visiting with many friends during my weekend away. My friend Sue even took some time off from the Pie Shop to go to Milwaukee to the Domes with me. Here are a few pics:



**You can click on a picture to view the entire album in a larger size in Google Photos**

theJob clients appreciated

Last year my company held two client appreciation events: Lawn Bowling and our own version of the Antique Road Show. Boss1 also took many clients out for a round of golf at various times. This year instead of taking individual clients out for a round of golf which would have my bosses out golfing everyday of the summer!, we held a golf event at StoneRidge Golf Club. This event has a hefty price tag and since we're still recovering from the market's nosedive, we did a little extra prep-work and got 5 vendors/wholesalers to foot most of the bill.

This really was an easy event to coordinate. I'm going to vote we do this again! Especially since we had vendors pick up the tab. The vendors also gave us most of the golf-paraphernalia (tees, balls, shirts, jackets, duffel bags, etc.) to use for prizes!

Here are a few pics from the event and a little description of the pics:
61 clients & guests joined Boss1& Boss2 and Advisor1 on the greens of StoneRidge Golf Club for an enjoyable round of golf and delicious buffet luncheon. The storm clouds went around the course on the north and the south, but not a drop of rain fell! Everyone had a great time, especially those who won tickets to the PGA championship at Hazeltine! Many, many other prizes were handed out as well. Boss1& Boss2 and Advisor1 enjoyed talking with the clients and meeting their guests. All-in-all, a great day to golf!


Monday, July 13, 2009

traditions continue...

You remember that last year we had another wedding in the family. I posted pics and tales here and here. This year to carry on the wedding week traditions we got pedicures and attended a Twins game!


Twins Game


Pedicures

moving day = many blessings!

My most recent move was due to the fact that Jess got married.
We started the loading at 9:00am and thanks to everone's* efficient help, my stuff was moved in an hour and I was unpacked by 3:30pm!
Most of the unpacking was done by Liz Charpie and I, but if I remember right Jen and Lindsay unpacked half of my kitchen before they had to leave.
*Attempt to list everyone: Jen, Morgen, Heidi, Eric, Lindsay, Liz, Mr. Charpie, Cynthia, Ruth, Phil, Doug, Deb, did I miss anyone?!

Here are few pics from moving day:



And in case you're curious, here's a moving summary - 11 Addresses in 11 Years:


  1. May '09- - Virginia Ave N #1, New Hope -my own place, hopefully for a few years!

  2. Aug '07-June '09 - Condo, New Hope - Jess bought the Condo when I moved here so we could share the cost of living near the City of Lakes!

  3. June '07 - July '07 - Markgrafs, Hanover (A.K.A. Canada) - lived with Jen & Co. for 6 weeks when I first moved to Minneapolis.

  4. Jan '07 - June '07 - Western Ave, WTTN - lived in small one bedroom apt (1 of 4 apt in an old house). Creepy old guys lived in the other 3 apts...but it was my HOME for 6 months.

  5. Aug '06 - Jan '07 - Eighth St., WTTN - lived in 3rd floor apt of Spencer's huge mansion-house. Good times with Michelle, Dennis & Co. when I'd stop by the Kitchen on my way to do laundry in the basement :)

  6. Aug '03 - Aug '06 Lafayette St., WTTN - lived on the "guys side" of campus with Betsy & Linda; got to walk to work!

  7. May '02 - Aug' 03 - Cady St., WTTN, WI - lived with Sue, Lora, & a few cats for a little over a year when I found housing without cats...

  8. Jan ' 02 - April '02 - Burnsville, MN - lived with Anna while we worked temp jobs to support ourselves and finished a lease on an apt for Jen & Eric.

  9. Jun '01 - Jan '02 - McPherson, KS - lived with mom & dad until I "found myself" - haha! :)

  10. Jun '00 - Jun '01 - Imperial Apt 1, Barrigada, Guam USA - had apt by myself, but spent most of my time with Brenda & Cristin...they called me roommate too!

  11. July '98 - Jun '00 - Guahan Apt A1, Barrigada, Guam USA - had different roommate each year, Christa & Missy.

wedding pics - jess & luke

SET UP

Anna & I got there a little late for the actual set up, but we did get there in time to hang out with those just arriving in town for the big weekend. We did bring coffee & donuts though...



BACHLORETTE PARTY

We had Jess's bachlorette party @ the Condo after the rehearsal dinner. Anna did most of the prep...


THE WEDDING

These are pics from Anna:


I just took a few pics:

Sunday, July 12, 2009

weekends of MoCarEth

At My Place

My niece and nephews spent the evening with me while Jen & Eric went out to dinner for the evening. My small apartment got even smaller as the evening went on, but we had a good time hanging out and watching "noovies" :-)
Mo'gen & Carsten spent the night. The next morning I took them to a bakery down the street from me since Morgen requested donuts for breakfast (and as only a good aunt would do, I complied!). I didn't use the word "bakery" when we talked about going to get donuts and when we got there I asked if they knew where we were. Morgen said "Yes, a bakery." When I asked her how she knew that she pointed to a shop window and said that was how she knew it was a bakery. She was pointing to the barber shop pole! Gotta love 'em!!



Sunday Dinner Out

For the sake of my sanity, I really try not to do this very much b/c of the quantity of kids, but one recent Sunday I decided to go to lunch after church with Markgrafs, Frenchs, & Emslies. Here's a few pics:



more fun!

MINI-GOLF
Here's some more fun! Lindsay wanted to celebrate her birthday with mini-golf. We had a great time at an indoor mini-golf place. Just don't ask us how long it took to get there! ;-)

Check out the "CD Cover" photo I took!

BABYSITTING
Linday got flowers for her birthday from her good friend in China; however, she left town two days after she got the flowers. Fortunately for me, I got to babysit the flowers! They were so fragrant and pretty. A new flower opened up almost everyday. I was sad to give them back to her when she returned from her trip, but she did get to enjoy them for several more days after that. I also got a couple of nice pics of my apartment in this folder (which is a sneak peak since I haven't posted moving pictures yet!)

sunday dinner fun

This was just fun. The Sunday after Jess & Luke's wedding, Mom, Dad, Anna, Jen, Eric, Morgen, Carsten, Ethan & I all met at Macaroni Grill for lunch. We had planned to go to another restaurant, but found out it was closed. No worries! we just went to Macaroni Grill right across the way.

While we were waiting for our food and after we ate we entertained ourselves with a little art/coloring:
Sunday Dinner with Mom, Dad, Anna & Markgrafs

this and that...time to catch up, continued

As promised I'm working on posting some pics and happenings that I'm very late in blogging about:

Kitchen Happenings
Back in April, I think, I was cooking dinner for me and Jess one night. When I glanced in the oven where I had chicken baking, I noticed a shadow in the middle of the pan, but didn't think anything about it really...until I took a second look, that is. Here's what I found:

From Pampered Chef Stone


Note: this large bar pan is a stone from Pampered Chef and is generally under warrenty, but of course, I've had the pan longer than the warrenty covers... :( I did end up ordering another one since I've been lost in my kitchen without it! I used it for everything!!


More to come!

Friday, July 10, 2009

Bekah's Bright New Venture

Hey, there family & friends!

Just wanted to share with you what I'm up to these days!

I just completed my 2nd year here at theJob* in downtown Minneapolis and still love the challenge of the job and the fact that I live near 2 out of 3 sisters, plus my niece and nephews. Oh, and of course the 2 B-I-L's (brother-in-laws).

Due to the economy, my job (and maybe yours?) was affected by a reduction of both pay and hours beginning April 1st. To offset the financial reduction and keep up with my previously set goals, I applied for a few local part-time jobs when I found out in March, but had no success. Around that time I received an invite to a PartyLite show with a friend from church. I had already been tossing around the idea of selling Pampered Chef, Tastefully Simple, or something similar so I decided to go the party to find out about selling PartyLite.

So the party was fun, I liked the products I saw, and then I found out that it would cost me NOTHING to start selling. I had been sure that the starter kit would cost something, but was glad to learn that the I could receive $500 in product for hosting a starter show ($350 kit plus $150 in product credit).

It really was easy. I invited all the (local) people I could think of (60!!) and had an average turn out (13!). I reached the sales goal ($350) with the starter show orders and earned my starter kit for FREE.

With all the people I had invited to my starter show who couldn't make it and with orders from people at work, I was able to "host" another show just through catalog orders! This helped me out a lot b/c they ask that you have 6 shows in your first 2 months. Now I've booked the remaining 5 shows and can't wait to show people all the candle stuff I got for FREE!

Last Tuesday I went to my first PartyLite team meeting and got more free candles and PL logo stuff! I had fun while learning a lot! Somethings I learned and want to share...
  • Now you can SHOP ONLINE - Even send gifts!!!

  • $$$$ Do you know of an organization looking for a profitable FUNDRAISER? How about 50%? That's right, 50% PROFIT - with NO sorting! Product is shipped to EACH seller!! Check it out!

  • July Hostess Benefits (lots of product for little money!)

  • July Guest Specials (must order through hostess or me-not online)

  • NEW! - Wedding and Special Occasion Brochure! You can earn the decorations for your special event for free! Skimp on budget without skimping on style!

  • See the PartyLite Catalog: click here!

  • Opportunity! Go to: www.partylite.biz/bekahflaming

Thanks for reading my updates! Hopefully I'll be able to post a story about my first month of success at the end of July!

May God be gracious to you and bless you and make his face to shine upon you. Ps 67:1

~ beKah ~


*theJob = name change to protect the innocent

Friday, June 26, 2009

this and that...time to catch up!

So it's been a while since my last post (and a sorry post at that!)...Well, I borrowed Jess's laptop and am now chillin' at Caribou with an Irish Breakfast iced tea - delicious! :) I mainly needed the laptop to do some work online with my latest venture -- I'll get to that in a bit, but let's roll back to oh, April...

April was a busy month with Jess's wedding preparations and such and me packing. Mom came up for a visit around the time of Jess's church wedding shower. We had a great time. This was mom's second visit by herself. I think she's getting a little independent - what do you think of that, Dad? ;-)

May was an even busier month than April. I actually had to finish packing and also move! Moving day was a cinch! I got up at 6 am and made sure everything was organized and ready to move. I had arranged for people to come at 9, but I was ready by 8:30 - bring on the mover helpers! I actually had a plethora of help. It was great! It took an hour and a half to load and unload 6 vehicles.

The moving day was all without the help of Jess who had ditched me for Luke's graduation weekend in Pennsylvania. She did leave behind her dear friend, Liz who came with a two special bonuses: Liz's dad and Liz's truck! Their great engineering skills allowed for almost everything to be brought over in one trip (and a total of 6 vehicles).

Those who could stay ate some pizza and crowded around my lil table and chairs that I got from some friends, Heidi & Josh Boyd. I was very excited when Heidi showed up to help and said that she had loaded the table and chairs in another friend's van already. What a blessing!

So after the pizza and fellowship, Liz came back to help me unpack. We were completely unpacked by 3:30 that afternoon.

And now you'll have to wait for the continuation of this...Caribou is closing!

(Don't worry, I'm gonna post some pics soon too!)

:0)